To mark the International Day of the Boy Child, experts are urging parents and society to give more attention to the development and support of young boys, emphasising the need to strengthen families, leadership, and institutions for a balanced society.
At the second edition of the Boy Child Conversation Conference, themed “Kings Awake,” and hosted by Debra’s Palace Initiative in partnership with the Young Men’s Christian Association (YMCA) of Lagos, over 150 boys from secondary schools across Lagos State gained valuable insights to shape their lives. Damilola Chinedu, the convener, expressed satisfaction with the event’s impact, noting that it was often the first time many boys had shared a space with mentors and peers. She expressed hope for an even more impactful third edition.
Actor and advocate Seun Ajayi highlighted the need to prioritise the well-being of boys, stating that societal progress requires supporting young men as they navigate their identities and connect with their purpose. “Beyond these conversations, we need structures to make this mission sustainable,” Ajayi added.
Oludara Akinlaja, CEO of OAR & D Company and President of Yada Global Network, observed that while society focuses on issues facing girls, boys are equally keen to learn and grow, provided they receive the right mentorship.
Leke Adeboye, Assistant Pastor and Senior Personal Assistant to Pastor E.A. Adeboye of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), noted that conversations around boys foster essential balance and equality, saying, “We must support boys in expressing themselves emotionally and otherwise.”
Tosin Martins, Senior Pastor of The Franchise Church, stressed that setting a positive example is key to raising well-rounded young men in today’s challenging times, noting, “Our experiences will inspire these young men to dream beyond their current limitations.”
Damilola Chinedu also reflected on societal expectations that emphasise strength in men but overlook their vulnerabilities, especially during formative years. “Many men, regardless of age, give up on their dreams due to ongoing hardship and inadequate support structures. Globally, much attention is female-focused, yet statistics reveal that men face disproportionately high rates of suicide, homelessness, and violence,” she remarked. Citing statistics from the United Nations and other agencies, she argued for timely intervention to support vulnerable boys.
Other mentors, including Morenike Molehin, Kore Taomu, Ebuka Ede, and Mohammed Ali, shared personal stories and encouraged the boys to pursue their dreams despite their circumstances.
Debra’s Palace Initiative, a non-profit organisation in Nigeria, aims to address societal challenges by providing young people with tools, mentorship, and encouragement to lead fulfilling lives.
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